Clinical Training
I am committed to ongoing professional development and regularly pursue advanced training to ensure my practice reflects current research and best practices. Modalities I use include:
EMDR
Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy (DDP)
Theraplay ®
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
Lifespan Integration
Emotion Focused Family Therapy (EFFT)
I believe healing begins with understanding.
Whether you're an adult working through the effects of your own experiences, a parent feeling overwhelmed by the complexity of raising a child, or a young person struggling with anxiety, trauma, or big emotions, my goal is the same: to help you better understand yourself and move toward lasting change.
I am a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) with a Master of Arts in Counselling from the University of British Columbia. For more than 17 years, I have worked alongside children, adolescents, adults, and families, with a particular focus on trauma, attachment, emotional regulation, and child development.
While my practice includes adults experiencing anxiety, perfectionism, depression, burnout, and the long-term effects of trauma, much of my work centres around children with complex needs (and often multiple diagnoses) and the parents who love them. I work with families navigating FASD, ADHD, autism, trauma, foster care, adoption, big emotional and behavioural challenges and the realities of parenting children whose needs are anything but straightforward.
My approach is grounded in neuroscience, attachment theory, and current research. I believe behaviour always has a story, and when we understand what is happening beneath the surface, we can respond in ways that create real and lasting change.
In addition to private practice, I work as a clinician with Complex Trauma Resources, consult with schools and care teams, and speak on topics including complex trauma, blocked care, parenting, and child development.
Other things you might care about:
I founded a positive body image non-profit organization, Free To Be Talks, after my MA thesis to help youth across North America – over 2000 students received the curriculum. In 2020 I stepped down from the board to co-found Care For Women, a charitable organization that supports new mothers in the complex and challenging stages of new motherhood. As I primarily work with children who have been impacted by trauma, I believe one of the most preventative ways to support and resource a family is when children are most vulnerable, which is when they are newborns.
I am mother to four children of my own, biological and adoptive, and am passionate about child development from in-utero through adolescence. The experiences we have throughout our life, beginning in childhood, have profound lifelong echoes as we grow older. Understanding how the brain and nervous system work provides tremendous hope and healing for positive change and growth. I have experienced it first hand in my own family life and want the same for you.
About counselling services
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Sessions
The number of sessions may vary depending on your needs and expectations. This is something we will discuss and determine together.
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Payment
Most forms of payment are accepted: cash, interac e-transfer, credit-card and cheque. An electronic invoice will be sent out following the session and payment for the session is expected right after the appointment.
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Insurance
Check with your extended healthcare provider to determine if Registered Clinical Counsellors are covered. Extended insurance plans are not billed directly.
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Cancellation
Your session time is reserved just for you. Sessions cancelled with more than 24 hours do not require payment. Sessions cancelled with less than 24 hours notices are payable at 50% of the normal fee. Missed sessions, without notice, are billed at the normal fee.
Previous presentation topics:
What’s all the fuss about complex trauma
Blocked care + blocked trust & parenting children with trauma
Complex care and intervention
Social media and children who have experienced trauma
Helping kids become more resilient
Nurturing resilient kids: understanding the roots of body image issues and how to effectively help
Learning to like myself
Becoming media savvy parents
Reading, writing and sharing knowledge and tools with others are passions of mine. I have been invited to speak at schools, PAC parent presentations, agencies, in-person and online conferences, workshops & panels, and podcasts and radio.
Selected writing:
Regehr, R. (2024, March). What is Motherhood Nature. Retrieve here
Regehr, R. (2024, January). Understanding How Complex Trauma Impacts Development. Retrieve here
Regehr, R. & Geddes, C. (2023, December). Navigating Trauma: Understanding, Recognizing and Healing. Retrieve here
Regehr, R. (2023, November). How Parents Impact Child Development and How To Build Strong Bonds. Retrieve here
Regehr, R (2023, May). The Importance of Mom Friends Postpartum. Retrieve here
Regehr, R. (2023, May). How To Help Mom Burnout: It’s Time to Stop Calling Mom’s Superheroes. Retrieve here.
Regehr, R. Y., Owens, R. L., Cox, D. W., & Clayton, C. C. (2020) Piloting Free To Be: A positive body image program for adolescents. The Counseling Psychologist, 48(6), 774-800. Retrieve here
Regehr, R. (2019, January). Why I Apologized To My Mom For Telling Her She Looked Young. Huffington Post. Retrieve here
Regehr, R. & Owens, R. (2018). “Free To Be,” an embodiment program created for youth. In J. Kwee, & H. McBride (Eds.), Embodiment and eating disorders: Theory, research, prevention and treatment. New York, NY: Routledge.
Regehr, R. (2018, June). It Takes Others To Help Undo the Wounds “Self Love” Can’t Heal. Huffington Post. Retrieve here
Selected media:
Care For Women - The importance of supporting new mothers Watch here on Global News, April 2024
Supporting new mothers - Care For Women. StarFM Radio Interview, April 2023
Abbotsford postpartum mentorship program - Abby News. Read here. April 2023
The PACE lab. Parenting In The Trenches podcast. Listen here, February, 2022
Adoption: Using Dr. Hughes’ P.A.C.E. model to help kids heal from trauma. Parenting In The Trenches podcast. Listen here February, 2022
Why parents and kids need to be more accepting of their post-pandemic bodies. CBC Vancouver’s “The Early Edition” Radio Show. Print article retrieve here July, 2021
Piloting Free To Be: A Positive Body Image Program For Adolescents. The Counseling Psychologist podcast. Listen here July, 2020
Bless this mess: Kids shouldn’t worry about how they look and neither should their parents. Read here on CBC. March 2020
Loving Your Body - Stenberg College talk, February 2020
Understanding beauty and body image. Impossible Beauty Podcast. Listen here May, 2019